The mother of Big Brother Naija’s season 10 winner, Imisi Ayanwale, debunks claims of abandoning her daughter and only coming out when she emerges as the winner.
The issue gained attention after claims of her neglect spread across the Internet like wildfire.
In a viral video shared online, she thanked God and Nigerians – those that mean well and those that don’t mean well- for their support during the challenging times.
She further went on to say that she has been living quietly with her younger sister in Ajah, receiving help and hospitality from people who welcomed her, provided food, and clothing.
She described her time as peaceful despite the criticism she faced.
Responding to those who accused her of neglect, she said her decision to remain silent was intentional and a matter of prudence, not guilt.
According to her, she never knew about Imisi’s win from the Big Brother house, only a few hours before it happened and had little time to prepare. She asked Nigerians to treat one another with kindness and understanding instead of spreading hate.
She said,”I’ve received mercy from God. Thank you so much to all Nigerians, I’m truly grateful. I’m staying with my younger sister in Ajah. Even though some people didn’t want me around, others welcomed me, clothed me, and fed me. I’ve been happy and at peace.
“Some people said I neglected my children. I’m thankful to both those who mean well and those who don’t. The elders say we should be swift to hear but slow to reply, and the Bible teaches us to always stand for the truth.
Adeola who promised them the other day is no longer available, and now I’m the one they’re after. The same Adeola is now following Opeyemi; she didn’t fulfill any of her promises. I was the one running helter-skelter, doing everything just to make sure my daughter succeeded and could lift me out of poverty.
“Even the day I went to Big Brother, I wasn’t told until the last minute, around 4 p.m., to dress up because Imisi would be leaving the house that day. Is that how it’s supposed to be?
“Let’s learn to bridle our tongues and stop tearing each other down. Why can’t we just live in love instead of envy and hate?”
